Goals and Expectations: Getting Real with 34 Coaching
- Oct 17, 2023
- 2 min read
We all have dreams and aspirations. Big or small, they fuel our daily grind. But what happens when those dreams remain just out of reach? Here's what's really going on:
1. Dreaming Too Big, Too Soon
"Reach high, for stars lie hidden in your soul. Dream deep, for every dream precedes the goal." – Pamela Vaull Starr
Sometimes our eyes are bigger than our stomachs. It's good to aim high, but:
Reality Checks: Some goals might be out of reach due to societal barriers or personal constraints.
Leaving it to Luck: If achieving a goal is like winning a lottery, it's probably time to rethink.
Unrealistic Dreams: Chasing after pure fantasy? Let's get back to earth.
The Fix: Dial it back a notch. Align your dreams with your reality. Challenge yourself, but make sure it's achievable.
Statistics: 92% of people don't achieve their New Year's resolutions. Don't be part of this statistic. Set realistic goals.
2. Needing More Time, Persistence, and a Pinch of Luck
"Persistence can change failure into extraordinary achievement." – Matt Biondi
Maybe your goal is right on track, but:
You Need to Stick with It: Rome wasn't built in a day.
You Need More Time: Good things come to those who wait... and work hard.
You Need Some Luck: Sometimes, you just need a break.
The Fix: Keep on keeping on. Stay patient, stay persistent.
Statistics: It takes 18 to 254 days to form a new habit. Stick with it, and success will follow.
3. The Need for Real Change and Hard Work
"The only place where success comes before work is in the dictionary." – Vidal Sassoon
If it's not the above, then:
You Need to Work Harder: Sorry, there's no magic bullet.
You Need New Skills: Learn, adapt, and grow.
You Need a New Approach: If it's not working, do something different.
The Fix: Roll up your sleeves, dig in, and get to work. Learn what you need, do what you must.
Statistics: 70% of individuals who have a coach achieve their goals. Let's join forces to reach yours.
Conclusion: Real Talk, Real Success
"What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals." – Zig Ziglar
Goals aren't achieved by magic, wishful thinking, or sheer luck. They take careful planning, gritty persistence, and often, a helping hand. That's where 34 Coaching comes in.
We're not here to dazzle you with buzzwords or false promises. We're here to work with you, get real, and get it done.
Drop us a DM at 34 Coaching, and let's make your ambitions come true.
